Thursday, May 28, 2009

A Date with my Boy


On Monday morning Dominic and I set out for a date at Safeway-donuts, chocolate milk, and SB mocha (for myself). It is rare that he and I get to be alone together-his little sis is usually there, and she is pretty great at rooting herself in the spotlight. As we sat and drank our drinks we talked of the important things-popsicles, the life of a farmer, his ideas for the grocery list...I love this little guy-he melts my heart. He is getting to the age where sitting and cuddling is not at the top of his priority list and so I need to find other ways to be close to him. I am always grabbing him, pulling him close, and he is always looking outward to what he will be doing next. His feet never stop moving. ( Sometimes I am sneaky and put on a cartoon-purely for selfish reasons, since I can get him to cuddle up.) I am constantly reminded of a children's book where the mom is always looking for the "lasts"- is this the last time you will jump into my arms before sliding down and running off? Is this the last time you will want to sleep with your blanky? Is this the last time your hand will reach for mine as we take a walk?...she is trying to capture the lasts...recognize them so they won't be missed...I feel like I do that when I take pictures of everything! Needless to say, this WON'T be our last date!

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Holiday BBQ and Running Wild!


Here are all the kids eating...it took a lot of effort on our part, but we got them to come to the table for a few minutes to eat dinner! They were having too much fun running around fields...basically running wild! When the adults sat down to eat, we had a great time b/c the kids entertain themselves!

Sunshine on my shoulders...or face! Cozied up by the fire! Getting ready for our traditional "questions around the fire" where Shawn asks a question and everyone around the fire answers it-his questions are great! We end up laughing for hours!

The matching pair! (and the GREAT QUESTIONER)

Roasting marshmallows and "cuddling up" as G likes to say-usually G is put to bed before the fire, but we let all of the kids stay up LATE this night! We will pay for it today!


Thanks Shawn!

G with Auntie Shelley...learning a new word- "solid" when asked how she is doing, along with knuckles and the head bob! Right up G's alley since she loves the whole attitude thing!
Buddies forever

The wheelbarrow provided much fun for the kids! I am a strong believer that kids don't need much in the area of toys-dirt piles, wheelbarrows, blankets for forts-that about sums it up....and they are happy campers!

Our two little pre-kindergarteners! They have known each other since birth!

These are the best times! We wouldn't trade these nights and days for anything!

Friday, May 22, 2009

Change of Plans...

So our family was supposed to be going to Lake Chelan this weekend with the Eyfords and some other families, and it would have been so much fun once we got there, but last night I could not bring myself to start packing for the camping trip...the week had been long, Vince worked CRAZY hours, and I was spent, ka-put, the kind of tired that brings you to tears! The thought of packing all of us up, driving down Highway 101 along with all of the other weekend travelers, and then hitting I-5 and Hiway 16 at rush hour...well it brought me to tears! So although I have a terribly hard time saying no, or backing out of something, I did it...I said no...it is too much right now. (thank you friends who encouraged me to do it!) And thank you Shannon for understanding! I can't wait for our trip in July. So now we are hanging around town, BBQ-ing with friends, sitting around the bonfire...that sounds like heaven, especially since I don't have to pack and drive very far! I get to go to garage sales-one of my favorite pasttimes! The kids get to go fishing, take bike rides, go for picnics...and Vince and I are trying to squeeze in some alone time! (Hopefully that happens!) We are having a "stay-cation" and it looks to be heavenly!

Picnic at Railroad Bridge Park



What a wonderful sighting!

Dom's first attempt at using my camera.

My princess!

Dominic made mud pie, mudballs, and all that is mud! Today we spent a few hours at Railroad Bridge Park, enjoying the river, and having a picnic. It was so relaxing and fun!

Fun times with Kaden


Hanging out on Grandma and Grandpa's counter! (One of mommy's old hanging out spots as well!)

We both wore dresses and G was so happy!

Enjoying the view...

Kaden came back to Sequim with us for 4 days while Baby Cash had to stay at the hospital. The boys had fun making a fort.

All of the kids were very into playing doctor! As you can see there are some interesting "medical tools" being used! (a hand mixer from the kitchen!)

A Blessed Mom



Late, but better than never! We were on our way to church on Mother's Day, and the kids (Vinny) had already showered me with love...I am not big on breakfast food so they got me my favorite coffee from Starbucks, along with some very special lotion called Wish. It is not that easy to find and I have been dying for some! We went out to eat lunch after church and then I took a LONG, much needed nap! (That is an ideal gift for me!)It was a wonderful Mother's Day!

Saturday, May 16, 2009

Baby Cash is here!


Baby Cash- welcome to the world! The paparazzi were out in force to capture your first few hours on this glorious Earth! (blinded by the light...! that is the song that comes to mind!)
Cash was born around 5 pm on Friday, after about 15 minutes of actual pushing, although Toni was at the hospital all day-she was induced. Although he was a couple weeks early, he weighed in at 7 lbs. 9 oz, and was 18" long. Since he was early, they will be at the hospital a couple of extra days, just making sure everything is going great for Cash.

Your family photo! How sweet!

Look - Cash is in that little bundle in his Daddy's arms.

Proud Grandma...couldn't wait to get her hands on him!
I loved holding Cash in my arms and hearing his newborn sounds...so sweet...how many times can I say that word in this entry?

All the kids could not keep their hands off of him! He is so loved already!

Of course Gianna is not taking turns-she wants EVERY turn! She loves this baby! But then again, Dom wanted to hold Cash just as much if not more!

This little guy would love to be a big brother again!

G knows just what to do! She cooed to the baby...

Proud daddy with the cousins!

Sunday, May 10, 2009

For all the moms out there...

(I received this as a forward...can't take credit for writing it!)

This is for the mothers who have sat up all night with sick toddlers in their arms, wiping up barf laced with Oscar Mayer wieners and cherry Kool-Aid saying, "It's alright honey, Mommy's here."
Who have sat in rocking chairs for hours on end soothing crying babies who can't be comforted.
This is for all the mothers who show up at work with spit-up in their hair and milk stains on their blouses and diapers in their purse.
For all the mothers who run carpools and make cookies and sew Halloween costumes.
This is for the mothers who gave birth to babies they'll never see.
And the mothers who took those babies and gave them homes.
And for the mothers who lost their baby in that precious 9 months that they will never get to watch grow on earth but one day will be reunited with in Heaven!
This is for the mothers whose priceless art collections are hanging on their refrigerator doors. And for all the mothers who froze their buns on metal bleachers at football or soccer games instead of watching from the warmth of their cars, so that when their kids asked, "Did you see me, Mom?" they could say, "Of course, I wouldn't have missed it for the world," and mean it.
This is for all the mothers who yell at their kids in the grocery store and swat them in despair when they stomp their feet and scream for ice cream before dinner.
And for all the mothers who count to ten instead, but realize how child abuse happens.
This is for all the mothers who sat down with their children and explained all about making babies.
And for all the (grand)mothers who wanted to, but just couldn't find the words.
This is for all the mothers who go hungry, so their children can eat.
For all the mothers who read "Goodnight, Moon" twice a night for a year. And then read it again. "Just one more time."
This is for all the mothers who taught their children to tie their shoelaces before they started school. And for all the mothers who opted for Velcro instead.
This is for all the mothers who teach their sons to cook and their daughters to sink a jump shot.
This is for every mother whose head turns automatically when a little voice calls "Mom?" in a crowd, even though they know their own offspring are at home -- or even away at college.
This is for all the mothers who sent their kids to school with stomach aches assuring them they'd be just FINE once they got there, only to get calls from the school nurse an hour later asking them to please pick them up. Right away.
This is for mothers whose children have gone astray, who can't find the words to reach them.
This is for all the step-mothers who raised another woman's child or children, and gave their time, attention, and love... sometimes totally unappreciated!
For all the mothers who bite their lips until they bleed when their 14-year-olds dye their hair green.
For all the mothers of the victims of recent school shootings, and the mothers of those who did the shooting.
For the mothers of the survivors, and the mothers who sat in front of their TVs in horror, hugging their child who just came home from school, safely.
This is for all the mothers who taught their children to be peaceful, and now pray they come home safely from a war.
What makes a good Mother anyway? Is it patience? Compassion? Broad hips? The ability to nurse a baby, cook dinner, and sew a button on a shirt, all at the same time?
Or is it in her heart? Is it the ache you feel when you watch your son or daughter disappear down the street, walking to school alone for the very first time?
The jolt that takes you from sleep to dread, from bed to crib at 2 A.M. to put your hand on the back of a sleeping baby?
The panic, years later, that comes again at 2 A.M. when you just want to hear their key in the door and know they are safe again in your home?
Or the need to flee from wherever you are and hug your child when you hear news of a fire, a car accident, a child dying?
The emotions of motherhood are universal and so our thoughts are for young mothers stumbling through diaper changes and sleep deprivation... And mature mothers learning to let go.
For working mothers and stay-at-home mothers.
Single mothers and married mothers.
Mothers with money, mothers without.
This is for you all.
For all of us.
Hang in there.In the end we can only do the best we can.
Tell them every day that we love them.
And pray.
"Home is what catches you when you fall - and we all fall."

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Cuddling with Grandma


Cuddling with grandma...we love our grandma!

Getting cozy under Dom's new soft blanket! Thanks Grandma for just hanging out with us and being silly!

Mother's Day Tea at Dominic's Preschool


My sweet boy...how lucky I am to be his momma.

Grandma got to come to the tea- they love to have the grandmas come and be honored.

The two princes...behaving for the moment! (I felt relieved when I saw other boys wrestling and horsing around on the stage...ours aren't the only ones!!!)

Getting ready to sing songs for the moms and grandmas...the last smile I saw for the whole performance!

We caught him singing once on the camera...once the singing started Dominic looked stricken up there...I kept urging him to sing, but he just stared at me like he was in a daze. He wouldn't do any of the hand movements or motions...he seemed to be in another world. I should have prepped him better! Last year he did not even notice the audience and belted out the songs! There were about 65 people in the audience today.

One of my partners in parenting! What would I do without you Kimmie??? Thanks for being an amazing model of a real life, loving, compassionate, mom who has boundaries and is creative in meeting the needs of your children. I have learned so much from you in the past 5 years...thank goodness I met you when I did! You build me up, encourage me, and make me laugh daily!

Sleepover!


Dominic and Pryce got to have a sleepover this week. They chose chocolate sprinkles for their ice cream, and as you can see, enjoyed every last drop!

The boys painted their "prince" crowns for the Mother's Day Tea at preschool. The theme for the tea was Beauty and the Beast, since the high school was performing that play.

Pryce planned his crown out before he put the brush to the paper! WOW!

Of course our little princess "needed" to paint one as well! (She loves to use the word "need" when she wants to do something!)

Oops, ice cream pic again!

Getting ready for bed...we were trying to calm them down, but they just got more riled up!

Dom and G love to hug and wrestle right before bed...the hug turns into a wrestle!

G loves to tickle her brother! Try getting them to bed after this!

Friday, May 8, 2009

A new cousin is on the way!

Jody and I hosted a shower for Toni and Jared's upcoming baby boy, Cash.We had such a great time planning the shower, and celebrating Toni! Cash is getting ready to meet the world!